I don’t know what prompted you to send me the dumbest message I’ve received in at least 6 months, but nowhere in the Merriam-Webster dictionary definition of “fitness” do I find the word “skinny.” Even synonyms for the word “fitness” focus 100% on health attributes as opposed to size attributes. So I’m sorry if you have this deep seeded complex that refuses to allow you to accept that, from all standpoints of medicine, science, and flat out fact, fitness is irrelevant to body size. That really sucks for you that your brain is struggling to let you come to terms with that. However, it is also 100% not my problem.
So many people I know are in the process of making big dramatic grand gestures with their lives. And it’s amazing. And I am ridiculously happy for them all.
And I am sat here going to work every day in a place that makes me feel very unwell a lot of the time. Don’t get me wrong I love the company I work for but my job is tough, mentally. And i’m no closer to figuring out what big dramatic grand gesture I could make that would support us financially (and I’d be any good at)